JUST DO IT
I was racing towards my class with my friends after playing basketball, I had worn a sleeveless sport shirt .
My whole both arms were naked. One of my friend(Tony) said that some people were laughing at me.
I glanced at them and saw they were 1st year students, and I whispered to Tony ‘I DON’T GIVE A FUCK’what others think of me’.
We both giggled . I like that shirt and why the fuck something should stop me from loving/wearing it??
WHEN YOU AND I GIVE A FUCK ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK
Tell me, how many of you have hesitated to answer some question in your school days/college??
I used to get nervous and most of the time I never stood and answered. WHY??
I have so many friends of mine who refuse to play a sport in which they are novice. WHY???
WHY DO YOU GIVE A FUCK TO CRAP??
The single reason which I think why most of you give a fuck of what others think of you is because you are fucking insecure!
What emanates this feeling of insecurity?? Your mistakes .!!
I never answered because I cared more on my classmates comments ,if I would say something wrong. And most people don’t try out a new sport as they will make mistakes !!
Most of us don’t take risks due to this fucking insecurity. We play small , rather than making our lives bigger. THINK ABOUT IT.
One friend of mine doesn’t go to gym because he is fat.His paunch has now more days to live.. Look how he is draining and debilitating his health just because he cares of others opinions about him!!
Its so astonishing that most of you are insecure of your body. So many of you hate making mistakes . Does being insecure serve any purpose??
Nope, it doesn’t. When you are fucking insecure you don’t live your life to its limit. Instead you are busy pondering what others think about you.
You have only one fucking life. But when you are insecure you belittle yourself.
So are you fucking insecure about yourself(Appearance) and the mistakes which you make ??ANSWER YES OR NO.
FUCK WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU
HAVE A BEGINNER MINDSET
Having a Beginner mindset will help you to amass knowledge. It will make you realize that mistakes are a part of learning.
FAILURE IS AN OPTION. If you don’t fail, you won’t learn anything. So why to give a fuck of what others think of you. JUST DO IT.
Just do your work irrespective of what people say .Do what you think is right for you .
Embrace mistakes. Don’t be scared to commit mistakes.
GRASP THIS INTO YOUR MIND
1 . MOST PEOPLE DON’T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU
See, we think we are the cynosure. Nope. People have their own predicaments and problems. Only your family members and a slew others give a fuck about you.
Because they care for you, right.No one else cares for you.
When you will start living by your own , you will realize this truth.
2 . LOVE YOURSELF
Thank God for everything that you have. This is what is known as Gratitude . When you accept yourself as who you are, you can improve yourself.
You won’t give a damn of what others say or think of you.ACCEPTANCE PRECEDES IMPROVEMENT.
Accept your body. Accept you life. Yeah, you might wine for having small height, black skin, not being attractive etc. But have you ever thought of the Good things that you have.
Have you ever thanked God for having Parents, a nice home, proper body parts ,etc.?? No, right???
Do you know how many people are devoid of even these gifts?? Most of you know this fact. But we are too busy to think what we lack.
I don’t say that you shouldn’t think about it, but you should at the same time accept yourself for what you have, and then only you can work to improve yourself.
3 . KNOW WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY/KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU/ THEN JUST DO IT
I mean don’t stop doing which fills you with joy and bliss, No matter what others think of you.
I tend to eat during my college classes as I workout , so i need to a lot. So some people make face sand snarl at me as they dislike the smell .
But I don’t give a damn. I do what is right for me.This not Entitlement.I am not Special. Its just that I am doing what needs to be done,I Gobble food, without harming others.
WHOM YOU SHOULD GIVE A FUCK
OFCORSE, YOU CAN’T BE CORRECT ALL THE TIME.
So, you must listen to few people. They include your family , mentors and true friends.
BUT DON’T BECOME ENTITLED
Entitled means thinking you are special.
NO ONE IS SPECIAL .
When you are entitled you feel superior to others. You feel like you are the person who knows Everything, and everyone else is shit.
This is what most druggists feel.They think themselves as special and feel like they deserve to take drugs .They feel that taking drugs is a sign of cool people.
Don’t become Entitled, break your ego and listen to a some people who you know who are better than you or care about you.
You and me , will always be wrong in something. We always crawl and hop from ‘wrong’ to being ‘less wrong’. That’s how we become better at anything.
Hence, listen to family,mentors and true friends, and examine/unearth their meaning . Don’t think you will always be right. Listen and decide what you will do.
I HOPE YOU WILL NEVER BE INSECURE ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE / MISTAKES. BE FEARLESS. AND WORK ON YOUR GOALS ,REGARDLESS OF WHAT OTHERS SAY.
SO START NOW AND JUST DO IT.
GOD BLESS YOU.